A Change of Heart in Marriage

John Neyman Jr
Dr. John is a counselor and therapist to ADHD children and their parents

Marriage is a working process for both married couples.

In the long run of marriage a change of heart is as important as a change in character. Change for the better and not for the worst. This will save your marriage life giving you long years together with happiness and understanding. Without a change of heart for both couples, you will endure all the negative sides of each other and will eventually lead to misunderstanding and chaos. This is a sad truth that needs to be dealt with.

How to have a change of heart in marriage?

  • Be open minded

An open mind resolves a lot problems and conflicts in a relationship. It may be easier said than done, but in times of disagreements and arguments in marriage, you need to be open minded. Learn to humble down and analyze things first. Never jump into conclusions. A husband must learn how to have self control not to do any physical pain to her wife. As a wife, never underestimate or henpeck your husband. Learn to submit and communicate in a low tone voice. There are problems and conflicts in your marriage that can be solved when you talk with mind being open and analyze the pros and cons of your actions and words first.

  • Accept your mistakes

There is no perfect marriage. You must realize that making mistakes is inevitable. However, if it is your fault why a certain conflict arises, lower down your pride and learn to say sorry. Usually a small conflict leads into bigger ones due to unresolved simple problems. If you see that you did something wrong or you need a change of character, learn to accept it.

  • Give room for change

Give room for change in your character. Nobody is perfect. Remember the constant thing here on earth is change. Likewise you can do that in your marriage. Change for the better and not for the worst. If you see that something is needed to be changed for the betterment of your relationship, never hesitate to do so. Giving room for change typically makes your marriage life work longer and happier.

  • Remember that you love each other

Often times the longer you’ve been together you forgot to keep yourself reminded that you love each other. This is significant. A change in heart involves constant nurturing of it. Never take this for granted for your marriage life’s sake. If you keep reminding that you love each other , all the changes you needed to do will becomes easier and lighter.

A change in heart in your marriage can bridge your relationship to your golden years with happiness and love.

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